15 days post-op...doing okay!

Just got back from a post-op visit with my surgeon and she says I'm doing well and right where I should be.  Good news!  Got my last drain out, and have few restrictions...though it is awkward to drive.  She says I will continue to improve and will adapt to the driving - the expanders I have in make it awkward, but each day, there is improvement.  


Stitches out next Wednesday, Then, I meet with the oncologist November 28th, and then back to my surgeon to make a plan for a lymphodema therapist to be evaluated...more precaution than anything else...and to plan around chemo, etc.  After chemo will come radiation and then reconstruction.  She said to expect about 5-6 months for chemo and another 4 weeks or more of radiation. So, my journey has just begun.


That's okay.  I have had my good days and bad days...but many sweet times with friends, family and most assuredly, the Lord.  He has so evidently been leading, guiding, and directing all of us.  So very proud of my family.  I couldn't ask for more supportive people.  And Kristen is definitely getting in her 50 hours of logged driving hours covered!  It's nice to have her with me...


So many unexpected prayers, cards, etc.  Can't even tell you what they mean to me.  


FROM "JESUS CALLING", a devotional by Sarah Young
"Learn to appreciate difficult days. Be stimulated by the challenges you encounter along your way. As you journey through rough terrain with Me, gain confidence from your knowledge that together we can handle anything. This knowledge is comprised of three parts: your relationship with Me, promises in the Bible, and past experiences of coping successfully during hard times....Although you and your circumstances may change dramatically, I REMAIN THE SAME throughout time and eternity. This is the basis of your confidence. In My Presence, you live and move and have your being."   (Based on Isaiah 41:10, Psalm 102:27 and Acts 17:28


Precious reminders of God's grace:

• Unusual doctors at Paoli...have been so thankful and blessed by Dr. Attebery and Dr. Singer.  They are wonderful, knowledgeable and kind.
• A daughter who doesn't complain about anything...at least not to me!
• A husband who quietly, every morning, takes out the dog, empties the dishwasher, straightens up the family room and spends time with his Lord...all before leaving for work at 6:15.  A treasure!
• Another daughter who gets up extra early just to have time for coffee with me before she leaves for work.
• A son, reaching from a distance, to let me know he loves me and can't wait to be home.
• Texts from Tricia Hageman.    :)
• Beautiful sunshine!
• A wonderful cami recommended by a friend who has been there.  I love it and want everyone who goes through this to have one...hmmm...
• What I am learning about contentment, peace, acceptance and the provision of the Lord on a daily basis.

Hope you are all having a wonderful day.  I know I have long days ahead. I know it won't be easy. I also know I won't be alone. And I know there is one dear family hurting deeply right now at the loss of their mom/wife/grandmother...I am praying for them, known them for years and know she is safe in Jesus' arms.  Doesn't make the reality of missing her any easier here...makes my current struggle pale in comparison.


Love you all.
Andi